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31 Mar

When you want to change your life but don’t know how

How to change your life when you don’t know what you want

When you want to change your life but don’t know how is bad and good at once? The worst feeling in the world is being stuck but at the same time, it’s also beautiful. So you are there, somewhere you have no idea where and probably getting pissed because something is constantly going wrong, not like you have imagined in the first place. It takes time, you give it a chance…and one more, and one more try…and that’s all, you quit, you give up and get sad if not depressed.

You deserve a better life!

There were multiple times where I would meet multiple different people of different nationalities and backgrounds that would say they wouldn’t ever see other life than that that they already have. They weren’t in the best positions whatsoever, but interestingly enough they constantly say that they didn’t deserve any better. So you are still there, when you want to change your life but don’t know how

When I asked them: “Would you like to change your life?” They would answer with a “No”. And that wasn’t a “No” because they wanted it to be there, but because they really didn’t know who they were as people, personalities and individualities. Simply those souls that got lost. None of them had a “voice” or the courage to be who they are.

When you want to change your life but don't know how
When you want to change your life but don’t know how

A striking issue of “youth” and that is why you are stuck

Not being able to feel the freedom inside of you leads to deep unhappiness in the later future or even worse scenarios. And if you don’t want that you’d better started to imagine what you are here for. Every soul has a mission on this planet and thinking that you are not important is going to be fully reflected in your everyday reality.

“Everyone is you pushed out” by N.Goddard

That means that you receive what you think you deserve. Watch your inner conversation and what you tell to yourself during the whole time. If you hear someone saying that you are not good enough, it’s not because they are bad, but because that is what you really think you are. Everyone is just a mirror for you.

Setting an intention is easy

“I intend to find the solution to my problem…” As an example. And watch it come to you naturally.


Iryna Fedorchak


Throwing my fashion & color philosophy like confetti ;)